Ok, so here’s a really annoying problem to have: you have a ton of music and you try to sync your entire music library to your iPhone, iPod Touch, or iPad and instead of getting all the music synced, you only get half or a quarter of the total songs! And on top of that, you have no idea why it won’t sync the rest of your songs.
I just updated my iPhone to iOS 5 and everything worked fine for more than a week. However, all of a sudden, music started to disappear from my phone! Every time I would sync the phone, fewer songs would be copied and I would get a message saying “X number of items could not be synced. Check iTunes”. Too bad iTunes didn’t give me any info either!
What I also noticed was that when I clicked on Music once I connected my iPhone (like below), a lot of the songs were greyed out!

So the above image shows how a normal collection should look when all your songs are syncing fine. Instead of the image above, a lot of the songs were greyed out and there were a strange sync icon to the left of the check marks. Not really sure what that meant, but I could not select any of the greyed out songs or do anything else with them.
I searched online and tried all kinds of crazy stuff like checking random boxes and changing settings, etc, but nothing worked. I figured it had to do with iCloud and iOS 5 since I didn’t have this partial song syncing problem before that.
Here’s what I tried and what worked for me:
Basically, you have to restore your phone. Sounds terrible and all, but it’s really not bad. Even if you just loaded up iOS 5 and performed a restore a week ago, just do it again. I promise it’s worth the trouble, otherwise you will have a flaky phone.
First thing to do is to backup the phone before you do this. You can do that by plugging in your phone and right-clicking on it and choosing Backup.

Once the backup has completed, you should disconnect your phone from the computer. Now you have to erase all content and reset your phone. Don’t worry, you’ll get all your music, messages, movies, songs, apps (with data) and everything else back if you did the backup.
On your iPhone or iPod Touch or iPad, go to Settings and then click on General. Scroll down to the bottom where it says Reset.

Then go ahead and click on the daunting Erase All Content and Settings. This will completely wipe out your phone and reset it to default.

Once your phone loads back up, you’ll be at the screen to setup iOS 5 again. When you get to the screen to setup as new iPhone or restore from iCloud or restore from iTunes, choose Restore from iTunes.

That’s it! Choose the most recent backup that you just made before deleting everything and you’ll have everything back to normal and all your songs will by synced instead of just half of them! If you are still having trouble syncing all your music to your device, post a comment here and I’ll try to help! Enjoy!























Oh my gosh thank you SO MUCH for this info!! I was trying to have iTunes on a Windows Vista sync my entire library but it only synced like 20-some songs ugh .. thanks to the backup, which I never even THOUGHT of, I now synced my entire library! Thank you so much again!!
- Georgina
I tried that and now it syncs even LESS of my music. SO frustrating.
Thanks! That seemed to do the trick! Now if I can just figure out why it's telling me that it can't transfer purchases made from iphone. I assume because they were purchased under another account name (icloud – which I am not sure is worth the hassle). At least now I can listen to my music as I figure it out
Thanks again,
Rae
hey im having the same problem with my ipod. i had this problem before which forced me to buy a new ipod, but now my new one has done it to me again
what happend is, i accendently deleted all my songs off my ipod.. so then i went to sync my libary back on my ipod, but it gets half way or even quarter way and shows errors… there are songs that are grey the wont copy to my ipod like you explained
songs never dissapeard of my ipod tho… i just deleted all the songs of my ipod by mistake….
this has happend to me twice now
i have tried restoring ipod through itunes, the computer, and through the ipod.
all my purchased apps are gone. please help!!
Oh my… thank you so much.. you've saved me from so much frustration.. do you know if you can turn iCloud backup back on and not have the same problem after doing this? thank you so much for your help sir / madam
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This is a helpful post, thanks. However, I'm having the opposite problem, where songs I purchased on my iPhone 4S are greyed out in iTunes (with a sync icon next to them), but transferring purchases says they are already transferred. Syncing transfers free podcasts of the iPhone but not the songs I bought. This was never a problem until recently (past week) and I haven't changed anything except for upgrading to iOS 5, so I'm guessing it's related. Do you think your iTunes backup/reset/restore will solve my problem as well?
ive only just restored my ipod touch and that messed my ipod up the first time and some music wont transfer and i will not restore it again
no luck
I’m on an iphone 4, didnt work.
I followed each step, but the music still did not download. It’s still showing “greyed out”.
I’m sorry … I spoke too soon!!! My phone had not completely finished restoring. I just noticed the music is not being downloaded! Thanks for your help!!!
Was having the same problem with iPhone 4. Only half music library was transferring from iTunes to phone. Your solution worked first time. Bit scary deleting all content though just in case!!!! All restored perfectly and all library transferred:) thanks, you’re a star
I’ve been having a problem with my iPhone and my new desktop mac. None of my iTunes music will sync over, none of the purchased music and none of my music I ripped from cd’s. I’ve tried restoring the phone regularly and then I just tried your process described above. Neither have worked. I’m pulling my hair out trying to figure out why it won’t work. All of my apps will restore back to my iPhone but not music. Please help!!!!